There’s some strange mindset that’s overtaken our culture and it’s the idea that if you show the world that you’re confident in yourself you’re somehow conceded, arrogant or cocky. Now I’m not talking about Kanye, my man is on a whole other planet when it comes to this; his “confidence” in my opinion is more of a delusion that money and fame built in his head. But any who, I digress.
Why can’t we not only be confident in ourselves and share it with others without getting an “ego” complex thrown on us?
If you’re feeling intelligent (or even better, if facts support this feeling) why not let that confidence shine?
If you’re having a day where you’re feeling attractive, why not walk with your head up high?
I want to challenge this subtle mindset society has today by saying this:
- it’s ok to have confidence in who you are and live your life as so
- it’s ok to think you’re attractive and walk with your chin up all the while radiating that confidence
- it’s ok to know/believe you’re intelligent
- it’s ok to feel sexy
- it’s ok to know you have potential to reach your goals
I’ve spent many years believing that if I talked well about myself it was either undeserved, a lie to make myself feel better, or was somehow making me have an ego. But I’m learning as I continue living my life that hey, I’m fucking good at things that will get me places in life so who gives a shit if I let others know it? I’m not saying I go to classes everyday and brag to either my classmates or those I pass in the halls about what I got on that test, that paper or what my grade last semester was. That, my friends, would make me a Kanye West type of asshole. But what I do now, which is different than how I used to live my life, is go to school and believe that I’m smart enough to get those grades and I try to show my confidence not in my words but in my work. So I kind of went off on a tangent about myself (but it’s my blog so I guess I can do whatever I want to haha) but I want it to sink in for whoever it is that reads this that contrary to popular belief it’s fucking alright to have confidence in yourself and live life and act like you know it. Fuck what everyone else will think; as the old saying goes: if you got it, flaunt it.
*disclaimer: put your boobs away and dress modestly still folks. I wasn’t talking about dressing like you’re about to go to work on the corner or are trying out for a Kardashian spin-off show**
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